Nigerian soul singer Sola Allyson has opened up about the realities of her marriage in a candid interview that has stirred widespread reactions across the country.
Speaking on Oyinmomo TV, the acclaimed artiste, known for her emotionally rich songs such as Eji Òwúrọ̀ and Isinmi, revealed that although she remains legally married, she has never experienced the joy many associate with marital life.
Allyson explained that she and her husband no longer live together, noting that the arrangement was mutual. She stated that, while they are still married, they live in separate homes. According to her, the joy and emotional satisfaction often portrayed as part of marriage have never been her experience.
She added that society, particularly the older generation, paints an unrealistic picture of marital bliss by claiming that love alone guarantees lifelong happiness — a belief she now considers misleading.
Her comments are consistent with earlier reports published by Punch, PM News, Legit.ng, and several entertainment platforms, which highlighted her frank admission about the absence of “happily ever after” in her own life. Sources such as Tori.ng, Glamsquad Magazine, and Platform Times also reported her views on the cultural expectations surrounding marriage and the pressures it places on couples.
Allyson’s revelation has generated wide public discourse, with many Nigerians applauding her courage for speaking openly about an issue often shrouded in silence. Discussions on platforms including Nollywood Times and The Star suggest that her story resonates with those who feel societal expectations do not reflect the complexities of real-life relationships.
The singer’s openness marks a significant moment, challenging long-held assumptions about marriage and encouraging honest conversations about personal fulfilment, emotional well-being, and the realities couples face behind closed doors.
