Nigerian rapper and activist, Michael Ugochukwu Stephens well known as Ruggedman has made it clear—violence is never an option.
In a recent interview on TVC’s “Your View,” the veteran artist shared his firm stance on handling conflict in relationships, revealing that he would rather walk away than resort to physical aggression.
“I always tell any woman I intend to date that if she pushes me to the level where I think of hitting her, then it’s over,” Ruggedman stated. He emphasized the importance of setting boundaries and making his triggers known from the start, ensuring that his partner understands what could lead to unnecessary tension.
Why He Ended a Relationship Over Public Disrespect
Ruggedman recounted a personal experience that reinforced his no-tolerance policy. He revealed that he once ended a relationship because his partner pushed him in public during an argument. Despite his attempts to de-escalate the situation and handle it privately, she continued, leading him to call it quits.
“I pleaded with her to wait until we got home to talk about it, but she ignored me and pushed me in public. That was it for me,” he said, stressing that respect should be mutual in a relationship.
On Abusive Relationships: “Material Gains Shouldn’t Cost Your Peace”
Beyond his personal experiences, Ruggedman addressed a larger issue—why some people stay in toxic relationships. He criticized individuals who endure abuse due to financial dependency or fear of public scrutiny, urging them to prioritize their own well-being over societal pressure.
“No amount of money or social status is worth your peace of mind. If a relationship becomes toxic, leave before it destroys you,” he advised.
Ruggedman Weighs in on Viral University Altercation
In a separate discussion, Ruggedman also analyzed the recent student-lecturer altercation at Nnamdi Azikiwe University, approaching it from a legal perspective. He noted that both parties could have acted differently to prevent escalation, emphasizing the role of emotional intelligence and conflict resolution skills in avoiding unnecessary confrontations.
A Message of Respect and Self-Control
Ruggedman’s words carry a strong message—respect, communication, and self-awareness are key to maintaining a healthy, violence-free relationship. His stance aligns with his long-standing advocacy against domestic violence, reinforcing the importance of walking away before a situation spirals out of control.
His final word? “If it gets to the point where violence seems like an option, then it’s already over.”
