Nollywood actress Wumi Toriola has ignited a heated discussion on social media after publicly calling out popular food blogger Tolani Osikoya, known as Chef T of Diary of a Kitchen Lover, for allegedly ignoring her collaboration request.
Toriola’s Public Outcry
On March 13, 2025, Toriola took to Instagram to share a screenshot of a private message she had sent to Chef T in August 2024, where she expressed admiration for the blogger’s work and suggested a joint cooking collaboration to promote her upcoming movie. However, after months of silence, the actress decided to address the situation publicly, stating:
“Diaryofakitchenlover feels like she doesn’t need anyone again, na only she grow her grow. Shey na December me sef come out?”
Social Media Divided
Toriola’s post triggered mixed reactions among fans and industry watchers. While some supported her, arguing that Chef T should have at least acknowledged the request, others criticized her approach, saying no one is obligated to collaborate with anyone.
A section of online commentators viewed Toriola’s move as a sense of entitlement, noting that professionals have the right to decline partnerships without explanations.
Food Critic Opeyemi Famakin Weighs In
Adding another layer to the discourse, Nigerian food critic Opeyemi Famakin stepped in to defend Chef T, explaining that she has a history of working with both new and established brands. He further criticized Toriola’s public call-out, stating that professionalism demands mutual respect in collaborations rather than forcing expectations.
Larger Debate on Professionalism and Influencer Culture
The controversy has fueled discussions about professional etiquette, entitlement, and the ethics of handling unacknowledged collaboration requests within Nigeria’s entertainment and influencer industries. While some argue that public figures should uplift and support each other, others stress that collaborations are a choice, not an obligation.
As the dust settles, the debate serves as a reminder of the delicate balance between business, respect, and online call-outs in today’s digital age.
